Well, you'd think that it'd be a suitable life style for most people, the fact that either the female or the male dominant one would be there for you, you'd be able to let yourself go and give and confide in them, all of your trust but it normally works out that when you finally find someone you think you can trust, they fuck you over. I'm not saying that this happens all the time but fairly often. I guess that's what happens online with the majority of things.
When does it come to a time when you should tell someone everything? When does it come to the time where you need to move on from one and see where your life goes? When does it move from just 'something' to something completely magical? What is right and what is wrong? When does someone begin to treat you unfairly? This is a little ongoing from a previous post i've written.. Older Post.It basically described what I thought about each and every type of D/s relationship that there is around and I thought i'd re-write and see where my thoughts have changed.
Once again lets start with the Dominant ones.. How do you start? I'm completely lost for a moment.. I think my thoughts kind of still flow the same, especially on the part of the Dominant males, pick on people your own size and don't force, harass or use the 'Dominant' ways against or to lure a woman in. Just because a female is submissive, it doesn't mean she'll let you get into her pants with your first couple of words or.. 'actions'. moving along to the bigger, greatest Domme's I have yet to come across a sincere decent one, I think you're all completely full of shit and that if you want to be a bitch to a person of your choice that you're preying on, please fuck off and get a life. You can be a bitch every day you wish and every moment you breathe - there is really no need to pick a certain person to be a rude c$*t too.
Submissives, I still believe that there is nothing wrong with being yourself, there is nothing wrong with pushing boundaries and also sticking up for yourself. If you've found the right guy or girl, the right Dominant for you, rules will forever be flexible and they will care enough for you to stop when you say no, to keep going when you say more.. Its all in the amount of trust you have in someone, you aren't just i piece of gum that they can walk all over and there is nothing wrong with being a strong minded, will powered woman. Continue, when you must to stick up for yourself and be you, even while being a little, a slave, a submissive. "Don't take the easy way out and jump into a D/s relationship that 'solves' all your problems.. until that's over too."
Those girls, that like to be trampled all over, not in a literal sense, I still go with the words of.. you need help and need to move on bigger and beyond that, it will literally get you no where in life if you haven't yet realised. but I guess if you want to be treated like this forever then meh. Such is your choice and one day you'll realise that you deserve so much better.
I don't know how much of a different this is to the other post but I'd just like to finish it off with a couple of more paragraphs. I'm still not knocking the whole D/d relationship, infact I think they are amazingly great. By now I've been in a few and the difference of what you want and what you're getting are obviously different and one can tell. But there's also what you want to get.. which is about where I am for the moment. Obviously things can always be better but you just live and learn.. and continue to be vocal and tell them what you want. The whole relationship is basically built on trust so if things aren't working, neither are your communication skills and if they are.. then.. you're not in the right place.
The end :). .
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